Hi,sorry you have had trouble that long.I would have confronted him by now.But that is just me.I am sure you have had a lot better advice than mine. -i think it is great that you are in C though.That was the best thing for me. -The internet can be a good thing and also a very bad thing. -May i ask why you don't confront your H?Are you afraid he will leave?A year of worrying about it is tearing you up inside. praying for you,K