Sorry, but I couldn't answer you on Osu's thread; it's locked up again. Anyway, the different strategy is b/c of his alcoholism. If you go to his thread #III, start from page 1 and scroll down through the end. He's not getting it b/c he can't. The alcohol...he really needs to be in rehab. If you read his whole thread, we all keep repeating the same thing. Over and over...he's not trying to help himself...he needs professional help. He bounces all over the place...now he wants new cologne...please. He is the cause of the M going south probably 95%. She probably sees OM b/c of his alcoholic ways...he doesn't listen to us anymore than he does his W. Sorry to use your thread, but I wanted to answer your questions.