My wife had a affair with her best friend another woman 5 years ago and it was very intense love affair with sex and xxx rated love emails and my wife told me she was now a lesbian and needed a woman......fast forward a year later after debasing myself and working to keep my wife.....I won;t even say what i did to keep her but needless to say it was bad for me...she dumped ow and decided to stay. During her affair she became a man hater and her childhood sexual abuse came out....it was the connection they both had.....wife stayed for three years wjile we worked on us.....it totally destroyed my self esteem because her affair was with another woman......it is so different than a "standard" affair...I know cause mu first wife cheated on me with a man and it wasn't nearly as damaging. Wife dumped me again in early 2005, I wooed her back cause i still loved her.....fast forward, things were going great until a month ago when I got the I am not in love with you speech and please don;t try anymore.....it was really over this time......I was destroyed in the ashes.......so I have a ton of experience in this type of affair......I am here to help anyone dealing with this as I don;t think it will ever work after a same sex affair esp if your wife was sexually abused.........I will answer any questions you guys have if you are dealing with a wife having a lesbian affair.....cause i have been to hell and back Export
