Thanks Wonka for the insight. I am NOT anti-lesbian,,, but I AM anti-affair, anti-divorce and anti- this particular - OW.

I had to laugh about the dopamine and the crack, but I think METH is more appropriate. My W lost so much weight and had such mood swings I even asked her if she was doing drugs. You know how that went over.

I know there is nothing I can do about the A. My MIL believes different, but I have attempted to detach.

I appreciate your thoughts. Thank you.

~m


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