I talked to another friend at work whom I have been avoiding I guess. She too is a lesbian, and someone my wife and I have known for over 12 years...used to go places with her and her ex-GF when kids were younger. She began dating a manager at work (female of course) and because of my union position I am at odds with this manager quite often (business is business)
She approached me of all things and asked how I was doing. Gave her my standard "i am hanging in there all things considered." She then went into a her opinions and views on the OW and my W and how she did NOT approve of them and has told the OW it as well.
This friend let me know that it will not last... OW only likes the chase, not the drama. Friend knows my views and how open minded I have always been (non-gay hating). Told me to hang in there and yell if I needed anything. Her current GF, the manager, does not like OW and has placed limits on her involvement with her and even involvement in my situation. It seems this Friend wanted to intervene with the OW and get her to wake up and get out the A with my W before it got too messed up. OW assured them "we are only friends..." I let this friend know that W and OW have been lying about that for sometime now... She said she knew and could tell.
See not all women like this prey on married women. In fact a good bit of them are like us... believe in commitment. Friend told OW "you do NOT play with married people... EVER"
OW asked if W and her could join them for the concert last night, to which I guess Friends partner said "no way, No HOW."
Glad to know I have friends on both sides of the rainbow!
