Rockinnm and myself thought it might be helpful to have a thread for guys whose W's are in A's with OW. Are there differences in dealing with such sitch's? Is there anything that can be done by us guys who are victims of our W's lesbofest celebrations? Got a story, a thought/idea or anything else? Share it with us. Lets help each other out here. My W refuses to peg herself as "gay" saying she hates those terms. She has never said she loves the OW just that she is "committed to that R", in fact, she never calls the OW by name although I know her name. Does the "gay" stigma keep them wanting to stay with us horrible guys? My W never says the reason she cheated was because of her sexual orientation, its always because of my perceived defecits as a husband, "You couldn't be meet my emotional needs". Confusing? Sure is. So lets hear your story and maybe we can all help each other out of this black hole we're living in. I know you guys are out there!!!
