Chromo could choose to not divulge. He could improve himself and gain enough power and and false respect in the R that there sexual issues are resolved.
That will not give him the intimacy that he desires to have. That will only come about thru transparancy and knowing the trust he has is earned. HE will know that the love she has for him is not based on truth and loving him for him. That is what he craves.
There is no sense in him filling up her LB to drop a bomb on her and have her questioning her ability to perceive reality. Every action he takes will be reviewed and questioned as sincere and real, and chalked up to not trustable or duplicitous during the time period of the A. Mrs.Nop and Gel just dont want to waste there time giving good advice to someone who isnt serious and honest with himself. They are doing him and his W a favor.
I wasnt mad at him for the A, I was mad at him for wasting my time, and making things worse by getting in his own way and trying to take the easy way.
