the silence from Lou and Lil on my thread is deafening
Chrome, along with the positives of the board you also have to take the negatives. Don't sweat it man. My sense is that Lou considered you more than an anonymous BB figure and perhaps is feeling betrayed by your deceit. Friends come around though, so give it some time.
I can understand Corri's response, although I didn't particlarly feel it here...some people do tend to act like judge and jury, they need to be agreed with or they get nasty. One person actually left my thread and has not acknowledged my presence since, even on other threads. Whatever. If you can look at all the differing opinons and the emotional reactions of the people who post here in a detached way, the words will be much more helpful. Ya know everywhere you go in life, there will be holier than thou attitudes and you just gotta roll with it. You're paying for what you've done and the rest is nobody's business unless you choose to make it so.
That being said, if you're still here seeking advice and guidance, I agree with GEL and MrsNops....I feel that the connection you've stated all along that you are missing with your W cannot be rebuilt until the whole truth has been revealed to HER. So, I personally feel that giving you my .02 cents on intimancy and/or re-connecting is putting the cart before the horse.
Take of yourself buddy.
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
