I understand, and am sorry that I have been a source of sadness for you.
I will say one thing, and then just let it drop. She is not being left out of the decision. My decision not to engage in full disclosure here has no bearing on how things proceed between my W, me, our MC, and my C.
Thank you again for your concern and your POV. Sorry again if I have opened up any hurt feelings.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"