I've watched part of it, but not straight through, so I probably didn't get the gist of it.
I do feel that maybe sometime in the future I will have enough handle on my own feelings that I can help others by relating my experiences, successes ... and failures.
Yes Heather, there is a problem with desire to build something where something never existed before. But anything worth building takes awhile, and often you can't see the progress until you are far enough into it that its pretty much already there.
I think that is a good step in deciding to build the house. Just remember what Corri was talking about. Focusing on keeping the tone of the conversation positive, and always try to build and not tear down with your words. I think if no matter what else happens, you always do this with regards to the house, it can literally be a foundation for your new marriage. That way, whenever you talk about the house, it will generate positive conversation and thus positive feelings, kind of like a safe haven from any other problems. IMHO anyway
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
