The problem that I see is that if you are doing things focused on the atraction that your actions will cause, you will be suplicating. Reacting to her level of interest and making changes in your behavior to gain her aproval is placing her sexual atraction up on a pedastal very un "aplha".
Martelo you said this so well. Trying to make her happy and worrying about every step you take is not decisive. It comes down to approval seeking, instead of approving of yourself, by using self discipline and being true to your integrity. Chromo has a long way to go with this, and his wife is quite intelligent. Any fake attempts will be rebuffed.
