I absolutely echo your post. Chrome...I don't know where you and your W stand at this point on honesty. However, if you haven't yet been honest with her about the OW, and the EA you began here.....then this trip, is absolutely putting the cart before the horse.
It seems to me that you are trying to build something on something that still has a foundation of lies beneath it. Am I wrong? Have you already told your W what has transpired and I missed that post?
If you haven't then whatever you hope to achieve by this trip is likely to have to be rebuilt (if possible) once you do come clean.
As MrsNOP's said I'm also not trying to piss in your wheaties, but I am trying to keep you on track as far as priorities go.
