HP,
The way you describe your H's lack of ability to make a decision is EXACTLY the way my H is. He wants me to pick for him, he wants me to mind-read him and get it right for him. Because he likes to act the "nice guy" by offering me the choice but secretly wants his choice. Most of the "quote" you put in have been uttered at sometime or other my my H . And I totally agree with you it is SOOOOO frustrating. It is even more frustrating when he will call me controlling - yaaaarrrgh!

How about next time you just toss a coin?

Fran

if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs
Erica Jong