Just chiming in here...for me, when I see my H playing and having fun with our S...I find that highly attractive. There are many attributes that attract women sexually....alpha male behavior (which I still attribute mainly to self-confidence) is one of those attributes, but tender/fun interactions with the children is also very attractive. I can't think of any of the women that I know who would say that they didn't find their H's playing/cuddling their children very attractive....we all (my friends and I) find that very appealing behavior.
