Excellent points made here.

My H is extremely alpha in every way except sexually. He has a REALLY deep, booming voice. Yet....when he does waffling/non-alpha behaviors it does challenge even my libido. I stay hot for him despite the times he is less than alpha not because of them. I stay hot for him because I can always listen to the booming voice and feel the physical reality of his size. We women are complicated creatures arent' we?

Karen