end up marrying the good guy, the one that brings security, is a good father, provides for the family, looks after her needs. It does not pay to be the good guy Ever since I radically changed my thinking to eliminate negatives, stuff like this actually makes my head hurt.
It litterally leaps out and hammers me with the pain of its defeat.
Wow. That phrase. It does not pay to be the good guy
You have taken a positive expression (good guy) and rendered it a negative with your beliefs (it does not pay).
AHHHHH!!!! My belief says a good guy is the one who does what she really needs for the health of the R. Regardless if thats what she wants/tells him/ believes. I believe a person who uses there strength to cause negative change in their or other peoples life is the 'bad boy'.
