"I NEED him to display more authoritative qualities..small ones like saying what you'd like to friggin eat..so that I can maintain--and even build upon--my feelings of love and desire for him."
Had to say my jaw dropped a bit on this one. A few months ago BF encouraged me to start insisting on what I want for the dinner menu in my household. Scary, huh? I think your use of the word 'authoritative' is illustrative. An authority figure can be one you can trust to be in control when needed. Is that one of the things that creates desire for you?
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
