Your story illustrates what I think is key for alpha males, the use of humor as a response rather than acting hurt or demanding. The beta male would have just acquiesced, but then been obviously hurt by the rejection. The omega male would have ignored her request and just continued as if sexual activity was supposed to happen with or without her desire for it.
I do wonder about the follow up that evening. If you don't mind me asking, was there a follow-up Martelo? I think trying to understand how an alpha male would continue a delayed encounter could be useful too.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
