“She asked for compliance to a request, I complied but perused my own desires. “
This isn’t how I actually looked at the situation, just some words put together to get the ball rolling. If you are overly concerned with dominance you really have to wonder how “Alpha” you truly are.
I’m fairly prejudice against the term “Alpha male” as it applies to human sexuality. It seems as if a lot of people think that it is a magic bullet to unlocking some kind of primitive sexual desire in women.
The thinking that all a man has to do is act dominant and some primitive part of her brain will respond to your actions and create instantaneous sexual desire seems to me to be magical thinking.
Human sexuality is a lot more complicated than a simple dominance and submission game where the male dominates and the female supplicates.
That being said “ I don’t know. what do you want to do?” is one of the least sexy things anyone can say.
