Alpha Male 101

[MJontheMend]

She asked for compliance to a request, I complied but perused my own desires.

She didn't really ask for compliance to a request. She asked your permission to delay your encounter until later. Therefore she was already being compliant for the most part so it might have been seen as a lack of self-control and therefore not very Alpha if you had proceeded. I would say it would depend on her reason for wanting to delay the encounter.


I have to say that this whole Alpha male discussion neglects some important aspects of female psychology. I would say that most women do crave male dominance sexually but that sort of dominant behavior is not what makes a woman want to bake you a pie. Women don't like compliance in a man but they can appreciate vulnerability. A man who was consistently dominant in his behavior could probably keep me running hot but wouldn't bring out my warmer, more tender emotions. I mean if a man walks in my kitchen and smacks me on the *ss and says "Feed me woman!", I would be happy to feed him but if a man walks in my kitchen just looking really hungry, I would be happy to feed him too. The first man would make me feel more girlish and cared for but the second man would make me feel more womanly and caring.