Not bad Martelo. That was pretty alpha to me, you didn’t deny yourself but were respectful to her. If you felt like you denied yourself and don’t feel very alpha then maybe when she said “is it OK….” You could have said “No it’s not OK” (in a light-hearted tone) “the closeness of your gorgeous body on this merry morn is too much for a red-blooded male to deal with – cm’here baby and do right by your man before I spank that pretty little azz of yours”

BTW my top favourite alpha male movie moment is in Star Wars (forget which one) when Princess Leah is all chained up and looks about to die and she cries out "I love you" to Hans Solo (having acted like he is scum of the earth up til that point) and he replies "I know"
Fan-fukking-tastic! that had me all goose-pimply the first time I saw it and it still has the same effect all these years later.

Fran


if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs
Erica Jong