Quote: and there was a time or two we had through the clothes sex
I believe we called that "dry humping" in my day! And 'twas quite the thing!
Quote: Be an attractive catch for any woman, including your W/XW.
Yep. Funny thing is I HAVE been seeing someone who is "into" me and another lady FRIEND just gave me a huge ego boost and commented that it's apparent I really pay attention to her or whoever I'm with. And I'm probably better at that now than I was the past few years w/ XW... she just is DONE. And thinks that she wants to find someone new to start over w/ and make "NEW MISTAKES with". WTF? Don't these WAS's realize that their new improved life is going to be more difficult what w/ blended families, different dynamics, screwed up schedules, $$$ issues.... I'm seeing some of this now and we had a VERY EASY D... She has no idea how easy it went.