Okay, this is for those of you that actually Div'd and then got back together, whether you've remarried or are just together... I realize all sitchs are different, but how long did it take after the D for the other Spouse to "come around" and want anything to do w/ you? Like anything from just talking more than necessary to actually wanting to go and do something? A few months, 6? A year?
Just curious. And how much effect did being "quiet" and not pressuring them or trying to convince them play a role (if they gave you such feedback)
