Cobra, please observe your own defensiveness.

>>I was speaking ONLY of the quiz on that page, not the whole site.<<

I'm in a sitch where I often wonder if I am being abused... I'm pretty smart and not "clueless," but sometimes I wonder.

When I tell my bf that he's being mean to me (like when he bites my head off for no reason), he says talk about "being mean" is childish and I'm too sensitive. Is THAT abuse? I honestly don't know. I DON'T trust my own inner signals and perception.

Maybe if I were your W, I would perceive you as abusive. I truly don't know. Maybe another woman in my R would NOT perceive my bf as abusive. I get lost in this zone.