My W did join me on last Thursday at counseling. We both took the day off and spent some time together around town. She did most of the talking at the session and the C was really surprised that she joined me. The rest of the week was a little tense for my W, even though the OMW said she has the OM controlled, OM still called my W’s work and sends her email to try and get my W into another dialogue. W kept forwarding the OM’s emails and taking pictures of her unanswered phone call log at work just to show she has not answered any of OM’s calls.
Friday, I asked my W if it will bother her that I email the OM and tell him to quit bothering her and our family by his emails and phone calls. W said go for it and it would be a relief for her if OM just stopped trying to contact her. I sent the email Friday night and CC’ed all the email addresses I knew of including OMW’s. OM replied to my email Saturday after we got back from the lake with W’s family. OM wrote a long narrative but in the first paragraph indicated that he will not contact us anymore. Ever. I did not read the rest of the email and chucked it in my archives for future reference.
W just asked me to go ahead and setup her appointment with C this Thursday by herself as the C suggested. We go in together at the same time next week.
