Quote: Ok, wedge, so where do things stand now? She's gone into "full disclosure mode" but has she committed 100% to ending things with him and working on you full time?
GH
GH, it's 100% over, she's now into the stage where she is realizing what an ass she made of herself. She asks me everytime she gets a chance in the conversation, "How come I was not able to get out of it on my own, why did I let it go this far?" I of course had to tell her about being abducted by aliens and that nothing I would have said would have made sense to her at that time. She was in her own little perfect world.
She had forwarded to me every email that she had access to from her work that OM had sent to her over the last couple of days. She sends them to me as attachments so she can't read them anymore. She used her camera phone to take pictures of unanswered calls from OM to her work phone and sent them to me. I'm taking all of this as a positive sign. I have a pic of her and my son on my phone as wallpaper, after we had changed her phone number, she asked me for a pic of me and my S8 so she can have it on her phone too. Last night, while sitting by the kitchen counter, she opened her phone and just said... "For a while there, I lost focus of these two guys in my life."
She brought up my CS on Thursday. W said, "I bet you want me to go". I replied, "I'm not requiring or demanding that you go, but it will mean the world to me if you joined me." She smiled, and said she'll just ask her boss for that day off so she can go with me then we'll spend time together after.
