Ok, wedge, so where do things stand now? She's gone into "full disclosure mode" but has she committed 100% to ending things with him and working on you full time?
The only thing I caution, and people cautioned me when my W got to that point, is that you understand that the affair may have one last gasp...or two...or three. Just beware of that and keep steady. She sounds like she IS comming around slowly so do your best to encourage that and try to ignore some of the little nagging things.
