All this time while they were texting, I was communicating with the OMW, we agreed that there’s no real point of us communicating if their R was really over. I told OMW some details that she shared with the OM, that or he read OMW’s emails. I went out to do some errands and during that time my W got home, OM called her again and was convincing her to sign up for another email address so they can communicate. All of these she revealed to me a little later after I got home. We were talking some more then I mentioned that I had email communication with OMW, she was curious as to what we talked about and asked her if she was comfortable learning the details of what OM and OMW was saying about her. She reassured me that she’ll be mature about it and so I showed her the emails. My W was really surprised about the content of the email, OM had OMW completely fooled by his stories about his R with my W. Earlier also, sometime after I got home, my W was already there, she also revealed to me that if I hadn’t come home sooner, he would’ve convinced her to sign up for that new email account. She agreed to have her cell number changed Saturday afternoon.
Since that time after I got home Saturday, my W spilled everything I wanted to know, she was going to tell me anything that I wanted to know. I was the one who held back knowing that some of the things I’m going to ask about, the answers will hurt. I just asked for reassurance that IF I wanted to know she will tell me. She agreed. She is mad at herself for being played all that time even though inside her she already knew. Sunday came, all we did was talk about our R, what happened, told me about each time she tried to break it up. OM would call, email or text with all the mean words but she ends up getting reeled back in.
W was worried about Monday at work because she knew OM would send email there too. She was right, he emailed her 5 times during the weekend, and the 5th one was inviting her to call him. W forwarded all these emails to me for safekeeping just in case OMW insists that my W was doing all the pursuing.
Tuesday, things are still going OK, W calling in and keeping me updated about anything that’s going on at her work or if OM is calling. She also offered to give me her itinerary each time she will be out of the house. It was a nice gesture and I acknowledged and thanked her for it.
There might be some missing information in between all this stuff that I typed up, it’s just too hard to follow the flow of events and keep them in accurate order at the same time. I’ll post some more info as I recall them.
