Hello all, Sitch: Me45 W38 major symptoms of MLC. S7 Bomb 1 - not happy, no sex, i wanna convertible etc etc - 8/3 Bomb 2 - divorce list?! - 8/17 Bomb 3 - condoms and panties in purse 8/20 Bomb 4 - W "even if we see MC it doesn't mean we won't separate"
I have ample (but mainly circumstantial) evidence of a PA. I need advice as to whether I should get a private detective or not. She has made this "divorce list" talking about custody of S7 out of state, house split, retirement accts etc etc. Claimed the MC said make a pro and con list about R. I said this is NOT a p/c list but a todo list for a split. This is all before we can both see the MC together. They see you in separate sessions 1st.
Then on 8/20 I find (I know snooping bad ) condoms and panties stuffed in a pouch of her purse. 11 condoms. 2 styles. Looks like she means "business" w OM to me! Then separation talk last night. All this has ensued since 8/3 ! yikes. OM is possible neighbor S30, they TXT and email alot, but I can't see. She is slick apparently. Cell phone bill should be here around 8/28.
OK, so I consult my parents (50th ann. coming up in a few weeks!) and my brother 2 (D's and now with a kindred soul). They think I SHOULD get a private detective to find out for sure. If I get served from W, proof of a PA would be huge, she wouldn't be able to kick me out of our house! I feel like she has NOT even tried to give us time to fix anything and now wants ME to move. I think not!
) condoms and panties stuffed in a pouch of her purse. 11 condoms. 2 styles. Looks like she means "business" w OM to me! Then separation talk last night. All this has ensued since 8/3 ! yikes. OM is possible neighbor S30, they TXT and email alot, but I can't see. She is slick apparently. Cell phone bill should be here around 8/28.
