My husband is having an affair! I asked the Lord to show me what was going on at my house while I was at work. The same day this what I came home to.Last year I caught him. He was in the bed with her and her child and she was pregnant at the time. He told me a bunch of out rageous lies about why she was there. I slept on the couch for 3 days. After that he did apologized in/out of those days but he still denies everydoing any thing. When i came home he wasnt having sex with her it was "just" that they were all asleep. In underwear and t'shirts. Since then he has brought her clothes or thier baby clothes to our house to wash them I never actually saw the clothes but it was the way he was acting when I came home. He told me that he was washing his clothes and I believe in the Holy Spirit told me that look at his clothes the pile looks the same. I have found layaway reciepts with baby clothes in the layaway his name on it but he says that he just took this same person to the store and she had no id. The Lord has showed me in a dream that the baby was his. He has gotten her a cell phone. she calls my house when iam at work. she calls his cell phone and he steps out of the room to speak to her. she know that he is married and we live together. I think that the baby is his he denies that too. I ask him for his voicemail pass word he told me no and said that if he gave it to me he would have to change it. I cant get to working on my marriage because he wants me to say and ignore his on going affair! I dont want to badger him but b/c he used to hit me. It happen 8 years ago but the fear is just the same. I dont know if I should say/pray or go? He has cheated out of the almost 20 years we have been together I would say off and on all of them! He has gotten two different women pregnant while we were dating! It sound absurd I guess I just have low self esteem! any suggestions?
