I am glad you updated. I am glad your dad is going to be okay. I know things didnot go exactly according to plan but it will work out. Your plans sound good with the house renos.
Well done you!! That all sounds pretty good! You seem to be coping so well. Sorry about your Dad ,but you seem to be in the right place just now .physically and emotionally.
It sounds like you need time to recuperate from the trauma and hurt of CD and the last few years. Enkoy your time alone, but also venture in time out of the cocoon! It will get harder if you retreat too much.
So sorry to hear you have had such worries about your dear dad. I know what that's like. Is your eldest d still doing ok? My youngest is still battling on but it's a hard road for her.
I too am in a tranquil place - at last. And although I do sometimes think that it would be nice to have a new relationship, it only feels to be that way in theory!
Like you, I just enjoy living my life as I want to, and that often means choosing to spend time at home. But I feel fortunate to be able to enjoy doing that. As Calder says, a happy medium is the best thing, so I do go out, and enjoy it when I do. But isn't it lovely to have a home which feels like a sanctuary? And soon yours will be like a palace too!
It's so tempting to hibernate once the winter sets in, but I'll keep you up to date with my adventures if you will do likewise!
Much love
Kayxxxxxxx
So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers
I hope your dad's all right. Maybe once the new people are across the street it will exorcise some demons for you and staying where you are won't be so bad. You are cracking me up as usual w/ your wig story etc. Don't worry about liking being on your own, it takes a healthy person to feel that way. Someone recently asked me what I will do once H is reM'd -- well the question really took me aback, I said what do you mean, what would I do? Why, I'd do just as I'm doing, living my life, and a pretty cool one at that!
