In my head, I know everyone else who has posted is absolutely right. But I can empathise with how it is making you feel.
In the end, none of us can stop someone from self harming. Yes, there is a risk, as Calder says, that he will do something if he gets drunk and agitated, but if the only way to prevent that is saying you will have him back, and that that is just not an option for you, all you can do is to stand back and let others watch over him.
His family are aware and they must step up to the plate now. The medication should take the edge off his agitation soon hopefully. Maybe this will be a turning point for him, one that will result in real growth.
This is going to be very hard for you dear mea, so please keep posting so that you can get all the support you need.
Thinking of you, much love
Jxxxxxx
So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers
