Quote: RE virginwife
33yrs and counting. It's too late for me to follow my own advice. I am old now. If we split up over this it's not likely I would ever find anyone else. So, I would just end up sex starved and poor
virginwife, I have been married 38 years. Do you think a guy my age in not interested in sex??? Think again.
I might believe the poor part but depending on the guy, the sex starved part is not a universal outcome.
I am not advocating you do anything but want to point out the myth that once past a certain age, everyone becomes sexless. Not true.
It's not age that is the culprit, it's medical condition.
Do you want to start a thread? We could use some more posters like you. Lillieperl is 57, I am 62.
Lou
Welcome, Virginwife! Your thread scared the out of me. The years keep on piling up and one day you notice it's been XX years since you had any ... whatever.
Does your screen name mean y'all have NEVER had sex?
Unless you married when you were 50, a 33-year marriage entered into when you were 20-ish or 30-is would put you in your 50's or 60's. You know darn well that 50-60 is NOT old these days.
It's not too late for you to find happiness. I'm not saying you should divorce, just that you shouldn't close the door on the future. That may mean a divorce. Or it may mean going off on a trip around the world by yourself, or going back to college to study something you love. Don't give up on yourself, even if you have given up on the sexual part of your marriage.
I hope you'll come back and talk with us for a while...
