Having a close friend of the opposite sex is playing with fire. I watched my H get sucked into an EA with his long lost "girl" friend from high school.
Men and women should understand that there is a thing called crossing the line. Sharing one anothers burdens is one thing, but when that person becomes your best friend and replaces your spouse, it is wrong!!
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.