Unfortunately everything you are describing is typical MLC.
You will hear the word "detach" spoken here. Trying to detach from what she is doing does not mean detaching from her and blocking her out of your life. It means to try to move on with your own life while she is out in her own little world of make believe.
And I might add, this is the hardest part of all. The validating and not getting sucked into their drama. MLC'ers are very selfish and very self absorbed. Everything becomes me, me, me!!!
Again I stress, do not try to rationalize with an unrational person, it is easier to bang your head against a wall.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
