another bomb... last night. W says she's thinking about separation (already!! ) and thinks it's ME who needs to go. I firmly but calmly told her "I am not leaving my home" and she seems to think there's some legal way to get me out. I looked into our states laws quickly and barring physical abuse or life endangerment, it seems she doesn't have leg to stand on.
This morning I took pictures of the rubbers and panties and her purse, not that that "proves" anything, but I have it for documentation at least. She had hidden the purse under our bed when she went for her walk this a.m.