W called MY parents and laid out that "we" were having trouble. Mainly she's PO'ed that my son said she had a Brain Fever and was afraid he might tell my parents on a visit or phone.

I asked what she told them and it is the same stuff, she wasn't happy for a while now, I have a bad temper and (2 times in the last 8 years!) slugged the door in anger. I tend to build up, explode and get over it. W is a grudge keeper...


I confronted her a little about $, but she had answers for some. I asked about $100 cash she took from ATM last night, "Oh I'm going to lunch later this week w/ friends, and the concert last night might have been expensive." I said $40 would've been plenty.

Also she said she told me all of this (bomb 1) 2 months ago, and I totally corrected her that it had been a little over 2 weeks. I also asked about her shortage on paychecks recent and she blamed it on no overtime, even offered to show me. Should I make her cough up paystubs?

Well gotta go. Late. Son is sick 102 temp. Stomach ache. Headache. He's 7. Finally asleep now.

Thanks.