Opinions? I presume this is a good sign but what do you all think?: Spouse and I email back and forth and she says, out of the blue: "I feel so many different ways. I'm all over the map. Wish I could talk to you about it but it's just too hard right now."(This from a woman who has told me "it's over between us" but then "just couldn't" move out...) WOWSA! What brought that on? I noticed the night before she was following me around and staying close by me at home but I did not try to start any conversation.
I wrote back that "it must be frightening to have so many deep emotions and to teeter back and forth. I'll be here when you are ready to talk. I understand if now is not the time." (Of course I really wanted to say "why don't you call your therapist and start seeing her once a week instead of once a month?" but...discretion.) She wrote back; "yeah I teeter all over hourly. I should have dramamine"
Of course that was days ago and I haven't heard another word. She stil found time to go sleep with the OW this week. Shall I read this as at lease she isn't SURE what she's doing? CRIPES!
Patience is not only a virtue, sometimes it is an impossibility.
