was just at Borders, fingering "after the affair". The book is great, wish I could get it, lots about healing. I prob wont' though, a great deal of the book talks about how the partner can help heal the affected spouse.
My H already told me he won't talk about it at all, after some forced confessions I agreed I would never talk about it already, seing him in shambles and still questioning who he was. He told me to get healing from somewhere else, that he can't console me nor is able to give much at this time. So I guess lots of stuff there can't apply to me. Regarless, there was great info on other aspects, really wanted to share a quote from that book, about sex
Quote: there is no beauty in sex, the beauty is on the people
He thought he was making magic w/her, but up til the end he -- at her request -- always refered to each other as friends (what kind of a woman has sex with a guy for months and just calls it friendship?)
OK, the monkey is now being swated off my back. Wish I could see my H today, he usually comes back from training, but they have something going on tomorrow at the training place and i won't see him 'til the night, oh well, will take kids somewhere fun, just got paid
I still have to exorsize the "if I would've found them together at the store/restaurat I would've tell him/ her xyx" demons, my imagination still runs wild there.
Anyways, hope you all have a great weekend))))))))))))))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
