"OK, so this time I mean it folks, no more talk of the OW, the past, what he did what he didn't do. I'm through, I won't have that constarntly on my head anymore and will figh whatever slimy thought comes to me. "
hi cat03 appreciated your posts to me and caught some of yours too. your words above struck me very much am also sorry you also have this OW from the past messing up your head at times.
It seems to me when H and I were apart and H was with OW, I wasn't at all sure about reconnecting our M, but more so about winning over him from the OW. That's why I am trying to keep this OW still from getting back in my brain and controling mine. In my sitch, I can forget this OW so well on many days and then this vulture seems to pop back in and mess with me again----how dare she!!!!! feel the same?
I remind myself daily of how far I've come and know you have too. I use the good times to push this OW out of my brain, but at the same time remind myself that things may not be as they say, and being realisticly watchful is helping me to stay stronger for myself.
Remind me too, and I will check on you & how you are keeping this OW from getting in your brain!!!
