All Hell broke loose, found out EA was PA

[BeingMe]

Cat, I know how you feel. Just an observation about burying the past - I think one should deal with the past, rather than bury it. These things always become unearthed at inconvenient times, if not emotionally and psychologically dealt with. You don't have to speak to your H about the OW, but in your head, you have to come to terms with the A, whether it was physical or just emotional. I think I am finally getting to that point, but it's been a 2 year battle for me.

I think what helped the most for me (and I think one of the posters spoke about this on your thread), is to find something to keep my mind occupied - i.e. I started studying again. But, there are other ways too.

Thinking of ya, and thanks for coming to my thread. Much appreciated!