Hey Cat. Just read through your thread. Just try to remember one thing... IF you want to know ehat your Husband is thinking you have to work on how you react to things. IF he is afraid you will lose it he will clam up. Sometimes it is too difficult to hear the details of the gruesome events. Each time I snooped I lost more and more respect for my Husband and was left with even more questions and doubts. You have to try and find it in you to forgive daily in your heart. He is home with you now!!! She is a nothing, not even worth thinking about. Let God take care of the harlots, you take care of you!!
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.