Hiya Cat03 - Sorry to hear about your roller-coaster. I know how that feels...just when you think that you've come into terms with something H does, you discover something new that blow my mind away. Time will definitely lessen the impact...

that our Hs are not perfect; do love us; are very sorry; and are just stumbling along the best way they know how.
Think SuperStressed posted the above. I think it is a very very valid point. They are doing their best that they know how. The reason why we are jumping is because we all are individuals, and would do things differently, and would think that he should do it OUR way.. because it is the RIGHT way??!!! (in our eyes, that is...)

if you don't let go, you will destroy everything that you want so bad.

he wants to be with YOU - not the ow

Tell yourself "I'm happy today" and be happy throughout the day
Above posted by Gwyn which I think is very very good!! I am going to be happy today...and be happy for the rest of the day. My H is stumbling along to make amends... and I need to open my eyes to see it!! (Sorry Cat03 for hijacking!!) Just ten minutes ago, H came by when he saw that I was surfing... to check on the long holiday so that we could go away together...

Live the Moment!!!