All Hell broke loose, found out EA was PA

[cat03]

I’m validated in smaller ways, every day – I STOPPED seeking it. When I started living my life for me

Hey Sven, thanks for your post, it helps me to refrain myself from going haywire on my H if and when I bring up any issues, you are right, he shuts down with "i dont' remember" and no amount of prying will make him say anything else.

I have to live life for me, I guess i loose sight of that since I barely get any validation from my H. He has a one-track mind (adhd) and his #1 priority is work. Since his MLC was brought upon full bloom after his other job turned him down on several promotions, he is working hard at the training 4 his new job, so he doesnt; have much time for me, and I have to understand that and find ways to make myself happy.

I will drop the accusatory tone I was planning on using on H tonight, it's another cheeseless tunel that never gets me anywhere.