Not sure which thread to reply to.
As I was driving home on Friday, I so wanted to edit my misspellings. sorry. not as dumb as my spelling makes me appear.

Regarding my sitch. Not much to tell and I really have no need to unload. I did a lot of that, much of it wrongly, and I have come a long way.

Cat, I have followed you from your first days on the BB. and you my dear have not been the easiest to follow. You are the sweetest lady. You have always been best at giving comfort to others.

if there is something about my stich that you want to know, ask. I am an open book to the extent that if you ask, I will have an answer even if its that I don't want to talk about it. So far, I've never had to use that line.

I only know 2 things about relationships. Snooping hurts the snooper everytime, and sometimes the R also. And, time does heal. Let go of the letter. Don't beat yourself up. It's a choice like everything else. LET GO.
I've had to do it. Many here on the board have had to do it. and you will find yourself better for it.