Tonight on the way home from work I decided to call my W and chat. I thought after all that happened these past days an emotional breakthrough in our sitch the time for a more active role in her life. I had gave her the space she wanted for a while and when she had agreed to try again and test the water I feel I can test them too. So we talked about her day and how work was going. I made sure to be attentive and ask the questions that kept the conversation flowing. Well she talked and talked the whole drive home and I had to tell her I had to go. I think it was good. She has told me that we needed to work on being friends and I think that this is a way to show her I care. And a book showed me that when a woman feels cared for and adored it really creates attraction. And attraction is what she says she doesn't have for me anymore. The thing I like about the converations are that she doesn't stop, that she really lets it out the stress of work and the boys and even the money issues she faces (that she said were mine). Another thing was there was no talk about us and our sitch. She also has made plans for us to go out with the boys for Halloween stuff two night in a row. I am glad I called her. I will do it again soon. Tomorrow though is PARTY TIME!!! College football is on and it is a huge game here for us. You can see the game on ABC at eleven and see a ton of my friends there. A nice thing about it is my W has to work and won't be able to see a bit of the game. I think she will call me to discuss it after work. Just like the baseball game last night. I am getting a really positive vibe from the last weeks strugles. Keep up the good fight. God Bless
