Ok a lot of folks are saying to me and her that once that physical attration is gone it's gone. Me i feel that it is just like the love but not in love thing. You fell in love and out of love and the attraction has been the victim. I think in knowing what it takes to be attracted to someone not just being a pure physical thing and having a real emotional side it could come back. Attraction grows on people all the time. If you are not completely attracted to someone but find there is more than the outer beauty it grows. Can this not be true when you have lost it and lost love? This seems to be the biggest hurdle my W faces and she doesn't want to jump because the council she keeps is in a similar arrangement. Only on the other side. I still know she will be mine though. I will not give up! Ha god Bless
