Watch the swings. You've been here before. Change for you. Don't stop changing for you EVER. Don't put ANY stock in what she says, positive or negative in terms of what YOU do. IF she tells you tomorrow she hates you, just roll with it. If she tells you the next day she loves you, just roll with it. DO NOT BUY INTO IT.

I am not saying to ignore something as "feel good" or positive as an ILY but you need to stay focused on the task at hand, and that is making those changes you talked about two posts ago. Her loving you has nothing to do with that.

She doesn't know WHAT she thinks right now. Her feelings are changing by the moment and some of those feelings leak out in the form of these declarations she's making.

Take all the info you can get (BTW, the sexual issues are VERY good to know about) and file it away to use once you get yourself on track.

This is called a roller coaster for a reason. It's because it's filled with downs AND ups and they are equally forceful in changing our sitches for the good and bad.

Strike a balance. Get in shape. Become that passionate man who loves life and your W's love, her TRUE, LASTING love will follow.

GH


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