Have fun, guy. Lots of it! I know what it's like to look at all those years and wonder "what the hell happened". It ain't pretty. You can't control what your W does, only what you do. It's such a hard lesson to learn for all of us here. Why can't we fix it!!! Damn, it's frustrating. Fair? No friggin way but that's what we got and nothing will change it. So my advice here is: just don't flirt with her best friend, OK, otherwise have a field day
