OK I dont think it was a way out there choice. I did it to have fun and I did. I had no intentions what so ever of doing anything more than partying. What is the whole GAL and LRT about except to have you S see that you are the person they want to be with. My W loves the life of the party. Hell thats who I used to be. Then the stresses of life got in the way. I let it all go this weekend. If my path leads me back to my W or to something else I will be like this from now on. I didn't flirt in any bar pickup kind of way. I just gave her the most attention and listened to her and complimented her. What I didn't do is say you are so hot or man if only thins were different. I also mingled with everyone else. I met new people. i din't just hover around her trying to score or stroke my manhood needs. and whatisis I only F'd up once. Everything else i have dropped. And the girl was my W's friend not my buddy's. Not married either.